@hiddlestunned ..... my dear hiddle ,its not just guys ,its all humans . I was dating a woman for a short time when her computer motherboard got fried. Being the generous type i gave her the $750 to fix it . This was how she earned a living . The very next week miss shirley ssid to me , "idont think this is working for us , bye " . You will find afew good ones you can depend on . Be patient, they willshow them selves toyou. We have all waded thru the inconsiderate trash .