His answer- Always stay Patient, Understanding and Trusting. As stated in Day 28, those are some of the most important things you need in an LDR. Don't be too clingy. If they don't text back, don't spam them with a bunch of messages (unless they are full if love).
Stay calm, don't let your insecurities take over and give you bad thoughts. They will text back.
Always. Tell. The. Truth. Be truthful with each other. Tell each other how your day actually went not how you would have liked it to go, not how you know they would have liked it to go.
If they ask you questions like; What was your favorite things that happened? Or How has your family been? Answer truthfully. Tell about they argument you had with your mom or how your brother pushed you or how your sister annoys you to no end.
They are always there for you and you can't deprive them of that job because you don't want to burden them or you don't want them to pity you. Your S.O. isn't there to pity or belittle you, they are there to love and support you no matter what. And if they don't do that, they are not the right person for you.
We apologize for not updating dayly like we were meant to. We forgot and/or were really busy (mainly me😅) but thank you so much for sticking with us throughout the whole thing.
Her answer- uhhh... I'm not really good at advice and Ethan kinda already said most of my ideas.
I guess mine would be communication... As I said in previous chapters or days it's important, especially for a LDR.
Tell your partner when your busy or wont be able to talk for awhile (also understanding, patient and trusting like Ethan said above) but also tell them when your upset. Even though it would be so much easier if they could just magically tell, its not practical. Your S.O. is not a mind reader, so tell them. I promise you'll feel so much better afterwards. All of this will be worth it! Stay strong! COMMUNICATE!
Thank you all for coming along this journey with us! I apologize for our updates not being consistent😞.
Some days we just flat out forgot or were really busy. *cough* *cough* me *cough* *cough*... I would take full responsibility but Ethan will find someway to say he was at fault too which is a total lie but anyhoo...
I had a lot of fun doing this! I hope you all enjoyed it too!💕
Feel free to ask questions in the comments, message board, or the Dm's of this account or our separate accounts!
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30 Days of Long Distance
Non-FictionShe and He are in a long distance relationship. They decide to answer 30 questions together. Here it is.
