"That's not-" San spoke, his eyes closing in annoyance.
"It's not just sex." I answered. "There's something wrong. Because before they dated Woo wasn't getting any- only giving and he was still happier than this."
"Only giving?" Yunho repeated, trying to figure that out.
He and Mingi had match expressions, deciphering the words, and it was nearly comical the way they both figured it out at the same time. 
"Oh..." He chorused.
"Damn, San- that's not cool. Using him, huh?"
"I wasn't using anyone." He said defiantly.  "He wanted to and I was... lonely and... you know..." he trailed off, clearly thinking we'd all agree with him. 
"But that went on a long time, didn't it?" I stated more than questioned, already knowing the answer. "You let him fall all over himself and do all the work to win you for years." I chuckled, shaking my head. "Everyone thought you two were a couple, but it was just a convenient situationship for you."
"I wasn't gay." San said solemnly, not denying what I'd said.
"Gay enough to let a dude blow you." Mingi teased.
"Yeah- I mean once could be considered experimenting, but more than that..." Yunho elaborated, catching everyone's attention. He met our faces, flushing. "What?!" he yelped "I didn't mean me... I was just sayin'..." he sidestepped.  
"We'll get back to that another time..." I muttered, turning back to San "Listen. Deny it all you want, but if you're attracted to the same gender, that's gay, babycakes." I clarified. "And even if you were... confused about your orientation, you have cared about Wooyoung for a long time." I smiled at him sadly. "using that to your advantage.. not cool." I scolded. "I don't know why you can't admit it, but everyone can see you love him. Unless...your feelings have changed?"
"No!" he yelped. "No...I...I love him so much." He said sadly. "But... I just...I don't think I can be the man he wants me to be."
"And what man is that, Cha Eun-Woo?" Mingi teased. "Pretty sure Woo's type is big, beefy and dimwitted- like you." He smirked.
"Fuck you, Ming." He muttered. "No, I meant... open... public. Loud and proud." 
"Has he ever said he wants to walk a pride parade with you?" Yunho asked.
"Well, no....but all his friends..."
"Had their privacy invaded and they were outed." I finished for him. They chose to be honest and to take the chance as a group and as couples... well, relationships." I added for those of the group in poly situations. "You do know that just because it works for them, doesn't mean you have to do it too." I soothed. "I mean... Polycules?" I smiled slow. "That's not for everyone, and it's okay that it's good for them." 
"I know that.. just... Wooyoung has known Changbin for years..."
"And they are two completely different people." I interrupted. "They have always been close, much like Yeo and Woo- which you seem to be having trouble with again lately. I thought we were over that shit."
"It's difficult to get over." He mumbled.
"They're best friends, bro." Mingi said bluntly.
"But they... they used to..."
"What? Fuck? Date?" Yunho huffed in laughter, clearly joking.
"I mean they did stuff." San revealed.
"Whoa..." Mingi marveled. "Never would have guessed."