Prologue: An unknown threat never comes down too easily to counter it

                                    

                                          
Prologue: An unknown threat never comes down too easily to counter it (Re-written)
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Hey, have you ever wondered why people helped others while some were not?
As I observe the actions of those around me, I can't help but wonder why some people are always ready to lend a hand while others seem indifferent to the struggles of others.
What sets them apart? What makes them choose to help or not?
They say that helping others is not only a virtuous act but also brings happiness and improves our own well-being. Being social creatures, it's only natural for humans to interact and rely on one another.
From an early age, we are taught the importance of kindness and compassion by our families and society.
Recent studies on brain functioning have revealed that love and compassion are deeply ingrained in our nature. It's not just about individual success; our communities and society thrive when we care for and support each other.
When we extend a helping hand to those we know, it strengthens our bonds with them and provides a sense of support. Surprisingly, research suggests that the act of giving support can be even more beneficial for our own well-being than receiving it.
Moreover, by showing kindness, we create a network of support that can be there for us when we need it the most, even if it comes from different sources or in unexpected ways.
Helping strangers also has a profound impact on our communities. It fosters cooperation, builds trust, and enhances the overall sense of safety. It allows us to see others in a more positive light and cultivates empathy.
These qualities form the foundation of a thriving local community and contribute to the well-being of society as a whole.
Deep down, we all possess an innate sense of compassion, although it might take time for us to tap into it fully. As the Dalai Lama wisely advises, we should strive to be kind whenever possible because kindness is always within our reach.
However, acts of kindness are not always motivated by pure goodwill. It's important to acknowledge that ill intentions can also play a role, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Helping behavior involves providing assistance or benefit to others, regardless of the helper's motivations. This distinction is crucial when discussing prosocial behavior, which encompasses any cooperative or friendly actions.
Being of service to others is not only rewarding but also a source of lasting satisfaction in life. In contrast, constantly chasing our own desires driven by the ego only leads to temporary fulfillment.
Unfortunately, human beings are not immune to negative tendencies such as greed and doubt.
Some individuals may harbor aversion towards helping, not necessarily because they dislike helping in general, but due to past experiences where their kindness was taken advantage of. These experiences can make them cautious and reluctant to extend a helping hand.
Have you ever found yourself feeling indebted and unable to repay someone's kindness?
Or perhaps you've experienced guilt when you were unable to assist someone despite your usual inclination to help?
It's possible that you were being guilt-tripped by someone, a tactic meant to make conscientious individuals feel inadequate or selfish.
As much as I'd like to delve deeper into the complexities of these differing perspectives, time is always ticking away.