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These days from 23 march to 30 march these days made me learn some lesson which i want to share it with u all .

        Why did u change ur self

A girl change their self after listening to others or after getting bf like

Before getting in relationship a girl

• Wear simple cloths
• Look her comfort everywhere
• never think before making friends
• Never get uncomfortable when her friend talk to others espically if it's ur crush
• no makeup only lipbam
• never fake her smile
• no fear to get caught by family
• can make guy friends without any problem
• when see a handsome boy drool over him

After getting in relationship a girl

• wear short or bright clothes
• try to adjust according to there bf
• think more than 10 times before making friend reason insecurity that she will drool over ur bf
• getting uncomfortable with her friend talk even if they compliment her bf
• wore makeup even if they are in home reason if he did video call i should look beautiful
• always fake her smile reason always insecure about her relationship with her bf
• always live in fear to get caught by family members
• even if she want to make guy friend . She will tjink more than 100 times reason if her bf doesn't like her friend
• when see a handsome boy she will say my bf is more handsome than him even if he look like trash still . My bf is more handsome than him .

Now tell me why did u do that huh . U know today i lost my friend . It's not like we broke our friendship she suicide cos of her bf cheat on her she cannot take it and die . I observe them from my exam over and i found these difference . Not only her my lot of friends and lot of girls did this . Now tell didn't he like u the way u are . The way u live . U know what her bf likes in her .
Her simplicity . The way she talk . The way she make other comfortable . How she understands other so he propose her but she change herself and lost his interest on her . If someone like u the way u are u shouldn't have change urself and if someone likes u after getting dressup then kivk him out from ur way cos he got attract by the way u ready . Then he want u to do it all time and i beat few girls wouldn't like but still do . Who wouldn't they will be broken heart . So don't change ur self for anyone

HOW U GOT EFFECT BY UR FRIENDS  COMPLIMENT

Before getting the compliment a girl

• say what she had in her mind
• do whatever she think it's right
• wore what she think is good for her

After getting the compliment a girl

• think before saying what is in her mind reason her friend have say u should think before asking or talking
( why why do u think before asking or talking huh . Let me tell u the thing came out from our mouth without thinking those things what we really wanna ask and we really thought about others like that . It wasn't come out with flow . It was reality that others don't like and say u think before talk . U should think before talk but in sensitive things or when u are in anger )
• never do those things she thought is right reason cos her friends think those things are kinda embarrassing
( if they are embarrass of u then leave them they aren't ur true friend )
• always think should i wore this or that reason friend give rude compliment on her dressing sense
( if they say that then say " it's my body i will wore what i want to u cannot tell me what should i have to wear or not cos u aren't my mom " )

Ur true friends will never say these things they will will support u when u are right and they will scold u when u did wrong .

HOPE I DIDN'T HURT ANY ONE I JUST DON'T WANT U ALL GUYS TO DO WHAT MY FRIEND DID AND WHY U WANT BF . WE ARE STILL KIDS LET'S FOCUSE ON 2 THINGS FIRST STUDY AND SECOND BTS COS IF U WANT TO MEET THEM U HAVE TO STUDY .

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