i find myself often questioning myself and stopping whether my critique of tiktok or social media or apple or google or what have you is reactionary because its easy to go into a mode of "things were better before" "we must return to the golden age"
i often romanticize older things, physical media, personal websites, offline mp3 players, digital cameras, vinyl, cds, a world before smartphones but nostalgia is a powerful thing and despite the fact that i enjoy these things and think aspects of them are better than things are now (lack of ownerships, streaming, addictive smartphones) not only is the era im referring to not better but in many ways its worse.
unless of course you were a straight white male during that time, ya know 2000-2010, a rather dudebro era of raunchy comedies, tv hosts openly admitting to wanting to bang underage starlets like hillary duff and the olson twins, games where the guy game on ps2 (which featured inappropriate images of a minor and had to be recalled) or biker xxx were prominent, not to mention all the post-9/11 paranoia, iraq war and leadup to the 2008 banking crisis.
it wasnt a better time just because i was too young to grasp it, but aspects of it were better in specific areas of ownership and mindful consumption of content. Although even that wasnt perfect, as i remember when i was 13 it was seen as cool to find the grossest sites imaginable of like things that would scar a developing mind and share it with everyone around. things like 2 girls 1 cup and lemon party and what not.
there were less guardrails but i think there should be some kind of middle ground between free for all and social media dominating the zeitgeist and killing individuality in lieu of algorithmic consumption.
this is one of my rants but the gist is that be careful being too nostalgic for days gone by because the past being this golden age is a reactionary talking point and that mindset can lead you down slippery slopes of right wing radicalization. be mindful of longing for the past.
you are not immune to propaganda as they say