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@jakeperalta / jakeperalta.tumblr.com

ella, 25, uk. #tuserella.
lonely wants to stay forever, but tonight we're gonna do a little better.
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"a man could never get away with this" I have never seen a man not get away with something in my life

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Sorry, I know you made the post hours ago, but my brain can’t let it go.

Instagram used to show me all the time content I was not interested in and I realised that it increased the more time I spent there/the more amount of times a day I opened the app. Over the past year, I’ve only been checking it twice a day (one in the morning and one in the evening) and I also deactivated the recommended posts, I fear we can’t do anything about the ads but even those have decreased for me. Now, my feed is almost exclusively made up by the accounts I do follow and my explore page has gone back to the kind of content I used to interact with, before the algorithm tried to push on me whatever reel had gone viral that week.

This definitely defeats the purpose of using it to kill time when I’m bored (highly tempting since i dislike my job) but it makes it easier to turn it to a virtual space that allows me centralise the content I’m interested in. That was the whole point of creating the account in the first place and also seems to be what you want to get from it right, so I’m sharing just in case you find it useful (if you want to quit it altogether, then good for you!!!)

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that's good to know that the algorithm is somewhat salvageable! I do like that you could filter words/phrases but I felt that increasingly I was being shown things with those words anyway, and the "not interested" button seemed to do nothing, so I'm hopeful that if I really cut back on my usage it will get a bit more under control again. if anything it makes me spend more time on there when it's not just immediately showing me stuff I'm interested in, because I end up scrolling sort of hoping for something to make the time on there worthwhile.

(I have actually just redownloaded it but that's mostly because my boyfriend said he'd sent me a bunch of reels and I obviously hadn't seen any of them lol, I think I'm gonna try to be strict with myself and copy your twice a day method and use all of my willpower to avoid the explore page!)

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I think the fundamental issue with "the man" by taylor swift is that lily allen literally already said all of it on "hard out here" six years earlier

like is this not just everything said in "the man" summed up in 7 lines

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