Today marks 6 months since Retirement.
Here's what I learned:
1. Your veteran network is very important. Being able to stay connected is great for your well-being, learning from and with other veterans will help you navigate transition.
2. Perspective is key. The mental scripts we provide ourselves will either limit us or propel us.
3. Your experience is yours and whatever that is...is okay. At whatever pace you decide to experience it. Transition can be challenging. Just like it took some time to really become a Sailor, Soldier, Marine, Airman...Or Gaurdian. It'll take some time find your right footing as newly minted retiree.
4. Figure out what's most important to you and make that your priority. For me, right now it's pouring into myself and my kids. It's spending quality time with my loved ones. Taking the road less traveled.
5. Use the resources available to you as a veteran. There are so many out there from career, education to Qaulity of Life to well-being. Odds are another veteran or retiree advocated somewhere for that benefit. Use it.
6. Your rank and prior position don't mean a whole lot to most civilian organizations/peers and they probably don't understand most of what you (unless you're able to communicate that message well) did. That's okay!
7. Acknowledge your accomplishment. If you served 20 plus years you undoubtedly did some pretty extraordinary things, overcame significant challenges and sacrificed tremendously. You earned one Retirement and its pension. You. Earned. Retirement. Do not minimize that.
8. Enjoy it. Sometimes grocery shopping at 10 on Tuesday surrounded by other retired people is nice. I get it now. 6 months ago I wasn't taking my time because I could. I was zipping through the store because I was used to the move, move, move, do, do, do. Now I literally stop and check out the floral department. Point being- take time to be present and enjoy what's right in front of you.
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1moFantastic work Donnie! May you enjoy retirement.