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"A KIND OF SORROW- 有一種悲傷" BY MATT-Q https://lnkd.in/g52R2YS3 Without relational meaning, all the accolades and certification will pass away. One always prays for reconciliation. Much as we are willing to forgive, reconciliation can only occur when the hearts of the other parties concerned are receptive and that is something no human agency can do. Throughout human history, no amount of knowledge, technique and mere intellectual accumulation of knowledge has changed the human heart. The transformation of the heart is a work that we hate to admit that's outside of us because we have been conditioned to be think that we are enough and that leads to a monstrous exhibition of SELF ENTITLEMENT, leading to a hypercritical spirit that undermines any knowledge we may acquire because eventually, we may not use them to build up, but destroy. When SELF ENTITLEMENT is our driving force, it blinds us to everyone around us because it's all about ME- my results, my grades, my feelings.....,my way essentially. Anybody standing in our way are mere obstacles to REMOVE to get what we want. We may use our TRAUMA as a rationale to hurt others too because the subconscious narrative is that 'well, since we suffered so much injustice, we must make sure that others feel the pain too.' Be careful because it is MUCH BETTER to err on the side of KINDNESS as we never truly know the scars of those whom we throw under the bus because we only cared about how we feel. You'll never know whether your action of cruelty can actually be the straw that broke the Camel's back. Inversely, we have often heard real life stories of how a kind word to even strangers have prevented them from ending their lives because that seemingly small deed restored their faith in life. #toolate #ahlinyaahli #sorrow #sorryseemstobethehardestword #sorrowful #matthewqueksingapore #regrets #pain #noway

Cultivating Compassion in a Competitive World: In today’s society, the drive to win and succeed often overshadows the importance of compassion and empathy. While competition can be healthy and financial stability is necessary, we must ask ourselves: at what cost? Many of us know more about celebrities than we do about our own families. Imagine if we treated everyone with the same respect and kindness we reserve for those we admire. We might be more understanding on the road, or kinder in passing. It's time to reflect on our priorities. Can we balance ambition with empathy? Can we foster a culture where compassion is not seen as a weakness but as a strength? Let’s work towards a world where understanding and kindness are valued as much as success and achievement. After all, a compassionate society benefits everyone. Let me know your thoughts!

Understanding Pain: Why We Settle for Less in Relationships This video explores the painful truths about relationships, revealing why some settle and the impact of societal norms on our choices. We aim to break barriers and encourage honest conversations about love and expectations. #Relationships #LoveAdvice #SelfAwareness #BreakTheCycle #HonestConversations #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #HealthyRelationships #LifeLessons #RelationshipGoals

Wisdom Wednesday: Remember, you're never alone in your struggles. Let's lean on each other for support and understanding. Together, we can navigate through the challenges and emerge stronger. 💪💙 #WisdomWednesday #YouAreNotAlone #JFSCommunity

No matter who you are, where you've been, or where you're at, it's never too late to embrace joy and peace. Life doesn't always feel that way, but we can redefine our experiences by abandoning preconceived notions. Reframing any situation gives us a new context and perspective. The Winning Playbook teaches us how to shed the weight of feeling 'wrong' and gives us the opportunity to forge a new positive association by changing our perspective #TheWinningPlaybook #NewPerspective #JoyAndPeace #PositiveMindset

Rumi's wisdom echoes through time, reminding us that true change begins within. As we grow wiser, we realize that transforming ourselves has the power to ripple positive change throughout the world. #parentingjourney #specificfeedback #raisingconfidentkids #parentcoaching #lifecoaching #marinparents #positiveparenting #mentalfitness #positivemindset #positiveintelligence #bayareaparents #parentcoaching #positivecommunication #growthmindset #parentinglife #parentingwisdom #leadbyexample

Catch today's Daily Reflection for February 2nd, exploring a crucial aspect of the 12-step journey: surrendering the ego. We delve into the typical traits of an alcoholic, marked by a narcissistic core and a desire for omnipotence. Understand how relinquishing control and accepting guidance is key to mastering one's destiny in recovery. #12StepJourney #SurrenderToWin #DailyReflection #RecoveryPath #ValleySpringRecovery

A simple trick to having a great week is beginning it with positive thoughts and confessions! Say it "I will have a great week!" 🥳💃 Your thoughts and words are powerful. Don't forget! 💪 #sdg3 #goodhealthandwellbeing #mondaymotivation #thinkpositivewords

Connected to the Past: Healing and Communicating Boundaries for a Better Future Learn how to heal past connections and communicate boundaries for a healthier future. Discover the power of acknowledging lateness and requesting better communication. Register for The Boundary Breakers Talk Show with Ashleigh Sinclaire via https://shor.by/BBC050724 #HealingConnections #CommunicatingBoundaries #BetterFuture #LatenessAcknowledgement #EffectiveCommunication #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #SelfHealing #Boundaries #HealthyCommunication

Connected to the Past: Healing and Communicating Boundaries for a Better Future Learn how to heal past connections and communicate boundaries for a healthier future. Discover the power of acknowledging lateness and requesting better communication. Register for The Boundary Breakers Talk Show with Ashleigh Sinclaire via https://shor.by/BBC050724 #HealingConnections #CommunicatingBoundaries #BetterFuture #LatenessAcknowledgement #EffectiveCommunication #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #SelfHealing #Boundaries #HealthyCommunication