Rachel Kersey’s Post

ALWAYS REMEMBER THESE ACTS 1. FEEL mad. Don't ACT mad. 2. When you stop talking to people, stop talking about them too. 3. Never tolerate disrespect, nor lower your standards in hope that people will love you when you please them all the time 4. What people think of you has nothing to do with what you think about yourself. 5. Time and hardship reveals your worth to people. Choose people who choose you no matter what. 6. It's a new month. A new chapter. If you don't like the plot of your life story, you can rewrite a new one. 7. Disagree to an idea you dislike. Do not dislike the idea because you don't like the person. 8. Respect people even if they don't deserve it. If you can't, then at least be silent. 9. Do not engage in an argument with people who always think to be right. 10. Good people can make bad choices and bad choices can make good people too (nobody is perfect)

ALWAYS REMEMBER THESE ACTS 1. FEEL mad. Don't ACT mad. 2. When you stop talking to people, stop talking about them too. 3. Never tolerate disrespect, nor lower your standards in hope that people will love you when you please them all the time 4. What people think of you has nothing to do with what you think about yourself. 5. Time and hardship reveals your worth to people. Choose people who choose you no matter what. 6. It's a new month. A new chapter. If you don't like the plot of your life story, you can rewrite a new one. 7. Disagree to an idea you dislike. Do not dislike the idea because you don't like the person. 8. Respect people even if they don't deserve it. If you can't, then at least be silent. 9. Do not engage in an argument with people who always think to be right. 10. Good people can make bad choices and bad choices can make good people too (nobody is perfect)

it's hard work being a JOY magnet. But someone has to do it🤣 So are you one of those people who makes 'poor' choices with your ration of compassion and empathy? Shari Alyse is the original JOY magnet,TedX speaker and TV host. She has oodles of these 2 traits. And it makes me wonder how ...given her story of being an abused child. So how can you practice compassion and empathy? Dig deep and try to come from a place of understanding and curiosity. You don't have to like or agree with the person, situation or thing ...just try to curious and make non-sense make some sense. PS: The last time I looked at the EI (EQ) traits - these were the signs of 90% of leaders (business, community and family) BECAUSE being a leader doesn't start with leading others, it starts with.... leading yourself. #emotionalintelligence #businessowner #entrepreneur

ALWAYS REMEMBER THESE ACTS 1. FEEL mad. Don't ACT mad. 2. When you stop talking to people, stop talking about them too. 3. Never tolerate disrespect, nor lower your standards in hope that people will love you when you please them all the time 4. What people think of you has nothing to do with what you think about yourself. 5. Time and hardship reveals your worth to people. Choose people who choose you no matter what. 6. It's a new month. A new chapter. If you don't like the plot of your life story, you can rewrite a new one. 7. Disagree with an idea you dislike. Do not dislike the idea because you don't like the person. 8. Respect people even if they don't deserve it. If you can't, then at least be silent. 9. Do not engage in an argument with people who always think to be right. 10. Good people can make bad choices and bad choices can make good people too (Nobody is perfect)

We get to choose how much time and energy we put into things. And the more we put in, the more we get out. So if you want a more confident life, start by putting more into it. Be bold, be brave, and go after what you want. Take risks, step outside of your comfort zone, and try new things. The more you put in, the more you will get out, and the more confident you will become. Here are some specific ways to put more into life and get more out of it: 1) Set goals and take action towards them. 2) Be present in the moment and enjoy your life. 3) Build relationships with positive people who support you. 4) Give back to others and make a difference in the world. 5) Take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally. When you put more into life, you are more likely to achieve your goals, live a more fulfilling life, and become more confident. So start today!

“You can influence, direct and control your own environment. You can make your life what you want it to be.” —Napoleon Hill We are not helpless when life gets tough. We can decide what happens in our lives by making choices and doing things. There are some things we can't change, like the weather or what others do. But even then, we can choose how we act. We can be positive and take action, or we can be negative and just react. We can change our surroundings by being with good people and positive things. We can make our surroundings better by setting goals and working to reach them. We can manage our thoughts, feelings, and actions to have control over our surroundings.

ALWAYS REMEMBER THESE ACTS 1. FEEL mad. Don't ACT mad. 2. When you stop talking to people, stop talking about them too. 3. Never tolerate disrespect, nor lower your standards in hope that people will love you when you please them all the time 4. What people think of you has nothing to do with what you think about yourself. 5. Time and hardship reveals your worth to people. Choose people who choose you no matter what. 6. It's a new month. A new chapter. If you don't like the plot of your life story, you can rewrite a new one. 7. Disagree to an idea you dislike. Do not dislike the idea because you don't like the person. 8. Respect people even if they don't deserve it. If you can't, then at least be silent. 9. Do not engage in an argument with people who always think to be right. 10. Good people can make bad choices and bad choices can make good people too(nobody is perfect especially You )

I do not recall posting anything before. But I felt that it is important to say this: If everyone learns to take care of themselves, this world would be so beautiful and serene. The fact that not everyone does so, it is complicated and messed up. So, here is the thing: do whatever you like but be happy. If you can, pls avoid harming others by your deliberate action. Do as beautifully as you can for whatever you do. Avoid as much as you can to blend emotions with brain. Stay as objective as you can and immensely contribute to a just world order. Accept the fact that the world order is fucked up and you can’t fix it all. But believe that you can fix your own life order. That fixes the world order, no matter how trivial it might seem at the outset.

🌟 Tuesday's Thought: Our Life's Goals for Goodness and Well-Being 🌟 Our goals in life have the power to shape our journey and define our character. As we pursue our ambitions, let's remember that the most meaningful goals are those that not only benefit us but also contribute to the greater good. Goodness and well-being are intertwined, and our aspirations should reflect this connection. Seek goals that promote kindness, empathy, and positive change, both for yourself and the world around you. By aligning our ambitions with these principles, we can find true fulfillment and well-being in our life's path. 

I always asked myself what “self-discovery” is? And what “finding my purpose in life” means? I guess it means digging deep into the series of events that you’ve gone through since you were born and revealing the experiences that shaped who you are today (good and bad). It’s what they call your “identity”. It means realizing what your beliefs are and living by them. Self-discovery includes acceptance, happiness, enthusiasm, passion, fulfillment and enlightenment! The journey is not always an easy road. It includes fear, confusion, doubt, love, hatred, expectations, habits and re-visiting all your choices in life. Exploring our depths, our inner selves by observing, will slowly rid us of the many false beliefs we once held so dear. I’ve had many set backs along the road and I have no doubt I will have many more. But, I’m not giving up it’s not even a choice for me. When we embark on the journey of self-discovery, we start seeing the ambitions we once were ready to live and die for.