'I know from blog readers, friends and colleagues that caring for a mother or father at home - especially for the sandwich generation juggling elderly parents and children simultaneously and for those who can afford neither to quit their jobs and be full-time caregivers nor to hire help- is more crushing. But everyone knows ahead of time that moving a parent into your house, or vice versa, will mean total immersion.
By contrast, experiencing the shock of assisted living's limitations is like being hit between the eyes with the proverbial two-by-four. We assume, incorrectly, that a good assisted living facility will relieve us of day-to-day labor and responsibility. Instead, we find we must do our parents' grocery shopping, pay attention to whether they eat, take them to religious services, buy their clothes and make sure they're clean and mended, supervise their medications, keep them supplied with books or videos, accompany them to doctor appointments and show up for anything that might be construed as an emergency. I never worked as hard or worried as much as I did during my mother's second assisted living experience.' (A Bittersweet season- Jane Gross)
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