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Despite popular belief, pointing out an issue is not the same as communicating a boundary. 💡 Assertiveness is your ally in the workplace. Saying, "I noticed that you like to stop by my desk unannounced," isn’t setting a boundary. It's just an observation. People can’t read your mind. 🔮 They interpret your words based on their own background and beliefs, which can lead to misunderstandings, conflict, and resentment. You don’t need to explain in detail why you need a boundary. Instead, be straightforward and polite. 🗣️ Here’s an example: “Hi Jane, is it urgent? If not, can we chat later? Please send me a message on Teams before you stop by. I may be available at 4 PM, but please message me first to confirm my availability. I’m working on a project with a tight deadline and need to concentrate. Does that work?" If they don’t respect your wishes, gently remind them. Tell them you can't talk now and provide an alternative or reinforce the boundary. ➡️Need more tips on how to set boundaries at work? Get my best-seller e-book, The Boundaries at Work Guide, with 10% off below. ⬇️ #CareerWellbeing #WorkplaceBoundaries #Boundaries #CareerButterfly