What are the most effective ways to handle manipulative people?

Oh, a victims post. First, an aside. When I was young I had an aunt who often called me “manipulative.” In response, I moved inward and would never ask for what I want, I would never try to sway someone to see an argument as I see it. Actually, I forbid myself from doing what ever one else actually does everyday. I was taught it was unfair to “get my way” and so I actively avoided winning. If you want to solve the puzzle you manipulate it. This should have been an article on, “How to Be True To Yourself and Say “No” If You Are Not Interested.” Let’s be very honest. This article is meant to “play the victim or martyr.” Everyone should be manipulating. And everyone should avoid undesired attention. If you’re not playing the game, wtf?

That is the first and most important step. Knowing how to recognize manipulative people. To avoid letting them do their thing, manipulate, you should be cautious and most important strong.

Assertive communication is a form of communication utilized in order to manipulate a scenario. To avoid things which a person has no interest, try firmly stating the word “No” while making direct eye contact. This will manipulate the person into dropping their previous intentions.

Manipulative people are always trying to make one's life meaningless and make one feel less human. To handle them, one needs to do the following: 1. Setting clear boundaries, 2. Staying assertive, and 3. Maintaining a healthy level of skepticism The above mentioned are very effective in dealing with manipulative individuals. It's important to prioritize your well-being and not succumb to pressure or guilt. However, if it still feel so difficult to handle them, one should seek support from friends, family, or a professional to navigate challenging situations.

In my opinion and how i work with such people is to listen to them and check their body language, expressions etc. you will find a weak point, which you can then work on. Its basic psychology at the end of the day, dont pay heed to their negative ways or toxic traits. They will come back to you asking for a collab or a situation to deal with. Give them your advise and guide them, but do not let them put the gun on your shoulder and shoot.

Seeking others in matters where a person should be independent is likely the number one leading factor in being taken advantage of. The more reliant a person is on others for emotional support, the more vulnerable they are to being used. This is because to “seek support” is an affirmation that one “needs help.” Certainly, do not be isolated. But let’s pilot this ship.

Manipulative individuals are passive-aggressive in their communication. So, once you have identified someone as manipulative, recognize their inability to handle things in a straightforward manner. This indicates their weakness. Just this understanding alone could give you a higher edge and strength to deal with the manipulation effectively. The next step is to analyze the relevant facts and people. Then communicate the facts to the appropriate person, clarify what you want, and manage the situation assertively.

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It could be quite tricky to deal with manipulative people. Such people drive pleasure from the adverse plight of others. They may use sugar-coated words, or play victim to attract attention, and then bend others to their will. Here is what you can do to protect yourself, and deal with such people. 1. Practice emotional detachment from such people, hear them but do not listen to back them up. 2. Do not give attention to such people. It will disrupt their pattern and make them uncomfortable. 3. Stay Calm, do not engage in arguments or clarifications. 4. Set your personal standards, and move away from them if possible. 5. Do not empathise with these people, do not give in. Practice these narratives to protect yourself.