Last updated on Jul 2, 2024

Here's how you can navigate conflicts and foster trust with colleagues through effective communication.

Navigating conflicts at work is not just about resolving the immediate issue; it's about building a foundation of trust through effective communication. When conflicts arise, they can either be a source of ongoing tension or an opportunity for growth and understanding. By approaching disagreements with the right mindset and tools, you can transform potential workplace strife into a chance to strengthen your professional relationships. This article will guide you through the steps to effectively communicate during conflicts, ensuring that you and your colleagues come out on the other side with a deeper mutual respect.

1 Listen First

Active listening is the cornerstone of resolving conflicts. When a colleague presents an issue, resist the urge to immediately defend your position. Instead, focus on understanding their perspective by listening intently. Acknowledge their feelings and restate what you've heard to confirm your understanding. This demonstrates respect and openness, which can defuse tension and lay the groundwork for a constructive dialogue.

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Daniela Tuci

Consultora Especialista em Comportamento & Etiqueta Corporativa / Treinamentos e Palestras / Ajudo empresas a capacitar os colaboradores para que alcancem o máximo potencial.
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É importante dedicar sua atenção plena, empatia e uma atitude de respeito para entender profundamente o que a outra pessoa está comunicando. Destaco alguns pontos sobre como a escuta ativa pode ajudar a resolver conflitos: 1) Demonstrar interesse genuíno; 2) Eliminar as distrações; 3) Identificar e validar os sentimentos da outra pessoa, compreender o colega, se colocar na sua posição; 4) Elaborar perguntas que podem esclarecer a situação; 5) Não julgar; 6) Demonstrar respeito pelo colega; 7) Agradecer pela honestidade; 8) Identificar pontos de concordância podem ajudar a construir uma base para resolver as áreas de discordância.

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Sébastien Robineau

Médiateur et formateur | 𝑳𝒊𝒏𝒌𝒆𝒅𝑰𝒏 𝑻𝒐𝒑 𝑽𝒐𝒊𝒄𝒆 | Docteur en droit et analyste transactionnel
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L'écoute active est la pierre angulaire de la résolution des conflits, et le modèle Process Communication Model (PCM) de Taibi Kahler offre des outils puissants pour améliorer cette compétence. Selon Taibi Kahler, chaque individu perçoit le monde à travers six perspectives (qu’il appelle des Perceptions). Lorsque vous écoutez un interlocuteur, il est crucial de reconnaître et de comprendre quelle perception guide son discours. Par exemple, si votre interlocuteur met l'accent sur des faits et des données, répondez avec des informations concrètes et vérifiables. S'il exprime des émotions, validez ses sentiments sans jugement. En clair, montrez-lui que vous pouvez percevoir la situation avec le même filtre que lui.

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2 Speak Wisely

Once you've listened, it's your turn to communicate. Articulate your thoughts clearly and calmly, using "I" statements to express how the situation affects you without assigning blame. This reduces defensiveness and helps your colleague understand your point of view. Aim to be concise and direct, avoiding language that could be perceived as accusatory or inflammatory.

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Jerry D. Smith Jr., Psy.D.

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When speaking wisely, consider the emotional tone you're conveying. A calm and empathetic tone can help your colleague feel heard and understood, even if they disagree with your perspective. Avoid using absolute language, such as "always" or "never," which can come across as rigid and unyielding. Instead, focus on the specific issue at hand and how you can work together to find a solution.

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3 Seek Common Ground

In the midst of a conflict, it's easy to focus on differences. However, finding common goals can change the dynamic from adversarial to cooperative. Discuss shared objectives and how resolving the conflict will benefit both parties. This shift in perspective can turn a heated debate into a problem-solving session, with both sides working together towards a mutually beneficial outcome.

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4 Offer Solutions

After establishing common ground, propose solutions. Be creative and open to ideas that may not have been considered before. Encourage your colleague to do the same, and evaluate each option objectively. The goal is to find a resolution that satisfies both parties, so be willing to compromise and collaborate on a plan of action that moves you forward.

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5 Follow Through

Agreeing on a solution is just the beginning. Implementing the agreed-upon actions is crucial for resolving the conflict and building trust. Ensure that both you and your colleague understand the next steps and commit to following through. Regular check-ins can help keep things on track and demonstrate that you take the resolution seriously.

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6 Reflect Together

After the conflict has been resolved, take time to reflect on the process with your colleague. Discuss what worked well and what could be improved in future interactions. This reflection not only provides valuable insights for personal growth but also reinforces the trust and respect you've built through effectively communicating and resolving the conflict together.

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3 Seek Common Ground

4 Offer Solutions

5 Follow Through

6 Reflect Together

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