~Talshu

So it is just me, or have a lot more people turned into assholes on here these days? Since my last journal, I've been lurking and sort of hiding out keeping my head down to see if it was wise or not to stay around and honestly it's been a bit hit or miss. Especially seeing some drama with some of my close friends and what they've been going through.

It's the year 2024 and people can't seem to be open and honest with each other, hold civil conversation, avoid talking to each other rather than just confronting one another with problems to talk things out like adults. Maybe I'm just old fashioned kind of gay, but when ever me and my husband have issues we always take the time to sit down and have a conversation and get things sorted so ill feelings don't fester. But from what I've been seeing on here, people act like it's middle/high school all over again and instead of just coming out and giving each other proper time to air out issues they've been struggling with, with one another. They avoid it, skirt around problems, let it fester, upset each other more and more, and just make the community as a whole even worse to the point one of the two parties involved breaks down and snaps making it even worse...

Seriously, stop it. Just balls up, or whatever and sit down with your significant other/friend/friends and finally have that civil conversation so that all parties involved can have some sort of understanding and closer. If at that time, an understanding can't be reached, then at least both parties have closer and you can move on from the situation without making it worse for the both of you by dragging it into the public eye.

I never understood why it's so difficult for some people just to sit down and have a talk, to clear the air and come to some sort of understanding...... you're not kids, you're not tweens, you're adults, act it..

I just see it a lot, and don't get me started on the artist who can't even communicate with their clients... ffffffff...