OK I seriously need to set some boundries!

I've had numerous cases of furs I've never talked to either randomly friend requesting me on Discord, or sending me random 'hi' messages. Please don't do this. I don't know who you are and I get paranoid you might be a bot. If you want to talk to me about something, please start by saying what it is. Even if it's something like "Hi! I really like your sona and would like to get to know you more." https://nohello.net/

Please don't seek out or immediately ask me for all my other socials. Trying to open up as many means of contacting me as possible really puts me off, and makes me feel like I'm being stalked, as well as the whole bot thing. Start on whatever site you find me so I have some chance of knowing where you found me. I get it, FA notes suck, but my Telegram/Discord is a lot more personal for me. I might make some exceptions, like if a site doesn't support DMs at all (like Bluesky), or if it just didn't work for whatever reason.

Don't ask me to commission art from you. I've noticed it's a trend for artists to randomly contact and put furs on the spot in DMs. I'd rather you not, and will most likely ignore if you do. One particularly disturbing instance of this happening to me at the end of this journal.

Don't assume I'm your best friend, or brother, or soulmate, just because I've been nice to you. I try to be nice to everyone. It doesn't mean anything special. It's just me being courteous. If I'm getting less enthusiastic interacting with you, please take the hint.

Don't randomly insist that I'm suicidal and pressure me into joining your "support group". Whether I am or am not, I get extremely strong cult recruiter/leader vibes from anyone that does that. And for those I've just now made curious, don't worry. I'm not suicidal. I've just had furs obsessively insisting I am so they can constantly 'check up on me', all while being extremely demanding.

And for the love of the gods, DO NOT send me pictures of your irl pets asking if my sona can be yiffed/vored by them! That is extremely fucked up! (yes that happened, an artist wanted me to comm this from them)