So I'm talking to this guy...(Dating Advice)
13 years ago
And there is potential for a relationship....on the phone.
Yeah, I know him IRL, he's a sweet guy, and when we text I do feel the magic, he treats me well and makes me feel special.
However, when we're in person I don't particularly feel the same way, I'm not physically attracted to him, and I know I'm not a genius I feel as though there is a bit of a gap as far education goes.
I know that you should love someone based on their personality but doesn't physical attraction have a part in the relationship as well but to a lesser extent?
Yeah, I know him IRL, he's a sweet guy, and when we text I do feel the magic, he treats me well and makes me feel special.
However, when we're in person I don't particularly feel the same way, I'm not physically attracted to him, and I know I'm not a genius I feel as though there is a bit of a gap as far education goes.
I know that you should love someone based on their personality but doesn't physical attraction have a part in the relationship as well but to a lesser extent?
If you really can't stand his looks maybe it's just not meant to be? #1 thing is to make sure you're satisfied with what you're getting yourself into.
But you should give it some time I think.. I find that over time, someone's looks can grow on you. Their little quirks that you might not see within a short period of knowing them could change your mind.
Hope this helps!
Take it slow for now, see how things develop.
Personally I don't think Physical attraction is a key factor, but that's for me, for some people its does matter, even if its just a little, that doesn't make you vain, it makes you human