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Attached to God

A Practical Guide to Deeper Spiritual Experience

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Attached to God

De: Krispin Mayfield
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Why does God feel so far away? The reason - and the solution - is in your attachment style.

We all experience moments when God's love and presence are tangible. But we also experience feeling utterly abandoned by God. Why?

The answer is found when you take a deep look at the other important relationships in your life and understand your attachment style. Through his years working in trauma recovery programs, extensive research into attachment science, and personal experiences with spiritual striving and abuse, licensed therapist Krispin Mayfield has learned to answer the question: Why do I feel so far from God?

When you understand your attachment style you gain a whole new paradigm for a secure and loving relationship with God. You'll gain insights about:

  • How you relate to others - both your strengths and weaknesses
  • The practical exercises you can use to grow a secure spiritual attachment to God
  • How to move forward on the spirituality spectrum and experience the Divine connection we all were created for

You'll learn to identify and remove mixed messages about closeness with God that you may have heard in church or from well-meaning Christians. With freedom from the past, you can then chart a new path toward intimate connection with the God of the universe.

An assessment, accompanying appendix, and references are available in the audiobook companion PDF download.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2022 Krispin Mayfield (P)2022 Zondervan
Psicología Religión y Espiritualidad Salud Mental Éxito Personal
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I related to the shame filled attachment style...

Helpful to understand and relateable. I found that the authors understanding of the way things are to be extremely comforting and aiding me in the reality of understanding those internally and externally that God loves me.

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Helpful and comforting

I primarily am approaching this book from my role as a Spiritual Director, but as with many books about spiritual practices, there is also personal relevance. I initially picked up the audiobook, but eventually purchased the kindle book as well because I wanted to highlight the book. The audiobook is well narrated and the exercises that go with the book and many of the illustrations or quizzes are in a PDF that is available with the audiobook. I may not have purchased the kindle book it if hadn't been on sale when I was reading, but since it was, there was no reason not to get both.

Krispin Mayfield is a counselor adapting his understanding of Attachment Theory from his counseling background to an understanding of spiritual formation. This adaptation of social sciences to bring insight into our understanding of spiritual formation is immensely helpful, even if not every instance of it is perfect. Some examples are Stages of Faith by James Fowler, Trauma in the Pews: The Impact on Faith and Spiritual Practices by Janyne McConnaughey, and Something’s Not Right: Decoding the Hidden Tactics of Abuse–and Freeing Yourself from Its Power by Wade Mullen.

Many within the Christian world are distrustful of the social sciences. And there is a long history of the misuse of social sciences. But Christians should have a commitment to All Truth is God's Truth (a phrase coined by Augustine) and the idea of General Revelation while also understanding the role of discernment in discovering what truth is. The problem with many (but not all) critics of the use of social sciences in Christianity, and especially in understanding Christian formation, is that critics often do not have the background to understand what they oppose. That is where content area specialists like Mayfield can bring social sciences back to Christian practices more easily than theologians, pastors, or spritual directors can go out and learn the social science necessary to work out a similar idea.

The basic idea of Attachment Theory is not too difficult to communicate easily. Infants look to caregivers to understand the world around them. They form affectional bonds with those caregivers for needs like safety and protection. To maintain those bonds children learn responses to maintain those bonds. Mayfield clearly states that we should not draw too straight of a line between our attachment style and parents. Parents often do their best, but there can be reasons why different attachment styles develop other than bad parenting. But the theory also emphasizes why adoption, trauma, abuse, divorce, and other impacts on the parent/child relationship can significantly impact our lives.

One of the helpful threads on the fictional Starbridge series that I have been writing about is that almost all people have some issues with their relationship with their parents. And that often occurs even when parents try to do the best they can, and there is simple miscommunication or differences in temperament that create distance. Sometimes the very act of trying not to make the parents' mistakes can create new problems in a different direction.

There are three basic Attachment patterns,

Secure Attachment (which is the largest group of people),
Anxious Attachment is where there is a continuous concern about whether the connection is a good one. A more passive variation is where a person tends to shutdown when an anxiety is expressed. Or the second type, the Anxious-Avoidant, is where there is an active avoidance of situations where they can feel like they will be rejected as a means to avoid anxiousness around attachment. This second type is most associated with children whose needs were unmet or where there was neglect as opposed to more traditional abuse in the first time of anxious attachment.
Disorganized Attachment is where the attachment seems contradictory. This style was most associated with major loss and unresolved trauma.
Again, a person may move between the categories even if there is a more dominant mode. And there may not be explicit abuse or neglect in people who do not have a secure attachment style.

The book is particularly helpful in looking at our language and spiritual formation writing which seems to reflect less secure attachment styles. In discussing this, Mayfield says, "If you think about it, church history is full of spiritual heroes who focused on God above all else." (kindle location 911)

Or in another place,

"Many Christian practices create ecosystems for perfectionism to grow, because on the surface the effort appears to flow from a deep relationship with God. While this spiritual insecurity can feel like a constant knot in your stomach, it may often bring applause from a church community. You always show up to Bible study having completed all the homework and with the best insights. You volunteer for three ministries at your church. You regularly read books about growing closer to God. You appear to be devout—and you are. But this devotion is driven by an underlying feeling that without spiritual activities, the connection will evaporate. Without regular routines, you doubt that God will stick around. (kindle location 983)"

Mayfield points out that Anxious attachment styles find it difficult to relax in God's love and we are oriented toward what we need to do to maintain God's attention on us.

Mayfield is not only descriptive, he has many exercises and ideas about how to seek healing for a more secure attachment with God.

"There are reasons to change and grow and heal and transform, but getting closer to God is not one of them. If we try to change ourselves because we fear disconnection, it won’t lead to healing. If we conclude that we are the problem, then we think the solution is to get rid of ourselves, often through self-destructive ways. (Kindle Location 1626)"

While I found the book helpful in thinking about spiritual direction, the main personal benefit is being reminded to relax in God because God in the person of Jesus was not disgusted with humans but intentionally came to be with them.

"Based on the popular teaching that God can’t stand sin, we’d expect that God would be disgusted with humans, especially those least holy in society. Surprisingly, when Jesus comes to earth, he doesn’t start puking everywhere. He’s not disgusted. He delights in people, loves spending time and sitting at tables with those who would never have been welcomed into the temple. Jesus, the perfect picture of God, delights in us. This doesn’t mean God’s not upset about harmful systems in the world—Jesus culled corruption from the temple by overturning tables. But clearly he delights in people, including those marginalized by oppressive religious structures. (Kindle Location 1691)"

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Better than expected

I am an attachment theory fan. I am also a recovering evangelical. I wasn't sure if this would bring hurtful theology into the discussion. He did and did it well.

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Bravo!

Resonance of peace is what flooded me over and over throughout. Well researched and artfully written, captivating, and the audio reading was actually enjoyable!

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Hopeful

I've been struggling in my faith for years, at times wondering if it's worth it at all. But I keep coming back to the hope that if Jesus really is who he says he is, then it IS worth it.

I've been following Krispin on social media for a while, so I was excited to read/listen to this book.

I cried a few times, not gonna lie. I want to listen again to process it more, but I think my favorite part was actually the end where he uses an example from The Last Battle to explain how our hope of finding the true heart of Jesus amid the lies can play out.

I will probably always have questions (what do we do with the doctrine of original sin?) and my faith struggle is far from over, but I really appreciate the honesty and hope in this book. it isn't afraid to "be like a child".

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Very insightful

Great read! Author explains how our early attachment styles with our families of origin affect how we relate to God. He explores how we can get skewed messages about the nature of God coming from a background of childhood trauma or even just less than perfect lives. He provides the reader with exercises on how to repair and better navigate this important relationship and finally experience how God not only loves us, but also likes us. He delights in us!

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Great integration of attachment theories and spirituality

I love attachment theory. It’s ones of my favorite counseling theories. The author does a great job at integrating this theory with the Christian faith.

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Balm for the Soul

Such a more constructive way for me to integrate attachment theory into my life. I’d never connected the dots to my parents that led to my shutdown style but putting it in this spiritual light made it all make sense. Will listen and read it again.

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Very insightful

Giving a different perspective on how so many “men of faith” approach how we should be with God based on their own attachment style is fascinating!

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This was so helpful

Relating attachment theory to our relationship with God was a new concept for me…and so helpful

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