Who Taught You To Live Like That?

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
radgritty
doomdaysdecays

any new ideas for airplane discourse since im on one

radgritty

cooking in the airport bathroom: based or bad?

taramaclaywasaterf

is it ok to let your baby reheat fish in the microwave while in the airplane

i checked tumblr for the first time in awhile last night and my whole dash was microwave fish discourse it gave me war flashbacks to the airplane baby discourse god i love this stupid fucking webbed sight
cordycepsfem
magnetic-rose

NYT has been discouraging reporters from sharing photos of luigi mangione - not due to concerns for his safety but to dissuade sympathy - and refuses to post his alleged manifesto in full. and today, they published an opinion by bret stephens about how brian thompson is the "real working class hero" of this story.

reddit deleted luigi's account, which was completely innocuous and consisted mostly of him giving out advice in health subreddits. they're also deleting any post that includes his alleged manifesto and banning users for sharing it.

luigi yelled that this was "an insult to the intelligence of the american people" while he was being dragged by police and news pundits are framing it as a deranged and violent outburst. news media are picking apart details of his life to paint him as a cold-blooded and mentally ill individual. even something as innocent as playing "among us" with friends is being framed as some insidious look into an assassin's disturbed psyche, ffs.

news media are also capitalizing on luigi's supposed "bizarre and impossible to understand" politics as an obvious way to paint him as a scary individual when the guy is... a centrist, at most. whose views are similar to those of your average college-educated white guy.

multiple news media also keep harping on about how luigi comes from a rich family. an obvious attempt to break the class solidarity that's been formed around this case by continuously trying to tell us "oh he's not like you guys" while ignoring the now pretty well-documented accounts of his multiple health struggles throughout the years.

and all this, and he hasn't even been found guilty of the crime he's allegedly committed. luigi is, as of right now, still innocent until proven guilty. and the news are trying to tear him apart because they obviously fear the symbol he's becoming for low and middle class america.

transmisogynyiscool

the rich are terrified. not so untouchable now lmaoooo i wonder whos next

cordycepsfem

If he comes from a rich family and still somehow understands how insurance companies gut and harm everyone who’s not rich, then I want him on my side anyway. What’s so hard to understand about that?

Anyone who uses their resources to shut down health care for profit is an ally. It’s a sin that disabled people get one wheelchair every five years, if that, and it takes a year to get to them. It’s a sin that these companies don’t cover nausea medication, special formulas, compounded drugs, psych hospital stays, chemotherapy, drug treatment, dental care, hearing aids, etc. So if someone with resources is going to help shut down the beast, they’re on my side, rich or not.

hey so protip for anyone considering firing a shit ton of massive fireworks in succession in a state that has been overrun by suv sized drones and military planes every night for weeks that’s also right next to the location of the country’s largest terrorist attack leaving everyone scared and paranoid….maybe just…don’t do that???

i was napping and woke up to what sounded like actual bombs shaking my house genuinely thought this was the end lmao

So
.learning you have mutual friends with the guy who shot a ceo is an absolutely insane and surreal experience lmao. He lived in philly the same time as me and went to penn when some friends went there. It’s likely we crossed paths at penn. And he went down the shore to ocean city NJ, which is where I go. Genuinely fucking wild.

Also, fuck Altoona. I’ve literally hated Altoona my entire life and seeing the entire world finally come together to hate it as much as I do has been almost as incredible as learning the ceo of a health insurance company was killed in the streets like a dog. I’ll be riding this high for the rest of my life.

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Yall know how fucking crazy that is??? I saw port o call (pink hotel in the background of that photo) and fucking screamedddd lmao like hello ??? My friends and I literally skinny dipped at like 3am in the ocean right in front of where he’s standing in that picture. I had my first kiss a three second walk from there. I got high for the first time on the boardwalk there. My whole damn life happened on that beach lol I genuinely cannot explain how surreal this is 


also that’s his sister and she’s fucking hot like oh my godddd the group chat is going crazy right now lol we’re all just like ?????

Ok so I’ve been crying all day. But now I’m just mad. We need to organize. Now. Enough bullshit. Call it 4b or whatever else you want. They’re going to be doing mass deportations. Banning abortion and birth control. Checking women to see if they’re pregnant at state boarders. Getting rid of no fault divorce. Maybe even trying to repeal the 19th amendment - women’s right to vote.

Women - all women, but especially Black and Brown women, lesbians, poor women, refugee women, mothers and pregnant women, single women, and any woman who refuses to lay down and become a doormat - are now facing the backlash of decades of advancements in women’s rights. This is men reclaiming what they feel they’ve lost: a guaranteed fuck toy and free maid, mommy, and broodmare like their fathers and grandfathers and every generation of man before them has been entitled to.

This could be the patriarchy’s death rattle - one last desperate grab for power before it all crumbles beneath them. Or it could be the last little bit of rope they needed to secure the noose around our necks, the final nail in the coffin for women. We can’t let it happen. Our foremothers worked too fucking hard to get us to where we are right now.

It was less than a hundred years ago that women couldn’t open bank accounts or have credit cards in our own name. Our grandmothers were trapped in abusive marriages and forced to birth unwanted children. Women who are alive right now lived through that. That’s how much progress we’ve made in such a short time, and that’s how quickly it can be stolen from us.

But women don’t give up. We’ve never given up. Men have tried for millennia upon millennia. Burning us at the stake, using rape as a weapon, forced pregnancies, “comfort” women, child brides, inventing entire religions to oppress us. And we continue to fight. Because we aren’t inherently submissive, passive, fragile little things. We have so much power that THIS is what they need to resort to in order to attempt to control us.

Instead of being sad and depressed and feeling helpless, get angry. Start saving money - cash, not digital. Get your tubes tied. Start working out. Start talking to women in your community. Form female friendships. Read feminist books like Dworkin and have your friends read too. Get a VPN. Learn how to induce a miscarriage at home, safely. Learn how to shoot a gun. I’m dead serious, I fucking hate guns, but if you can get a gun safely, get one and take some classes. I have an M&P380 and recommend it. If you’re not comfortable with a gun, get a knife. Take self defense classes. And again, organize. Offline. Our foremothers didn’t need the internet in order to create entire underground abortion care systems. They did it in person, word of mouth.

Most importantly, don’t interact with men. Stop fucking them. Stop dating them. Stop marrying them. Stop birthing their children. I don’t care how badly you want a fucking boyfriend - buy a vibrator and get your emotional connection from female friends. Men do not care about you. They will not protect you. They don’t even see you as human. Stop giving yourself to them, it’s humiliating. To be blunt, at this point, it’s the most humiliating, degrading, dehumanizing thing you can do to willingly have sex with someone who sees you as subhuman. You aren’t just humiliating and harming yourself, you’re humiliating and harming all women.

Be careful, be smart. Channel your anger into change.

I voted this past Sunday. Was there maybe 10 minutes and there was 4 first time voters and the whole place burst out into applause each time. Everyone was smiling and excited. I’ve been super hopeful since then, until today. I woke up this morning with the worst feeling of dread. I literally feel like I’m gonna rip my hair out, burst into tears, set everything on fire, or some combo of the three.

I took the day off of work because there was no way in hell I’d be able to handle that shit mentally right now, so tomorrow is either gonna be hell or really great with no in between. I’ve deliberately avoided any and all news all day. The only time I’ve left my house today was when I felt myself going so insane and stir crazy that I went to my favorite thrift store to walk around for awhile and I ended up getting some cool stuff, but it literally felt like everyone was as nervous as I was. Like we were all just waiting for bad news. Or maybe it was all in my head, who knows.

I have zero clue what the results look like so far apart from when I got home from the thrift store and saw the news my housemate and her boyfriend were watching in the livingroom, which - from the quick glance I saw before turning away - it looked like that man was winning, so now my anxiety is even worse. I genuinely feel like I’m going to throw up. And now it’s 10:30 and I need to go to sleep but I can’t so I’m just laying here tossing and turning in dread, trying to force myself to play some stupid game on my phone or watch some dumb video on youtube but nothing is helping.

We’re not gonna last another 4 fucking years of this shit. Please let her win. She needs to win. I’m so fucking tired.

not even scrolling on tumblr because I don’t wanna risk seeing anything just clicked the thing to make a new post and will be immediatly exiting after I just needed to vent into the void real quick
butch-reidentified
homopsychology

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Ironically, while fighting for the accused male’s reputation, society tends to create a smear-fest around the female survivors, reinforcing the toxic culture of victim blaming. Between “he really is a gentleman” and “but what about his exceptional career?”, himpathy enables a systemic gaslighting of female survivors: from claiming that they “misunderstood” the intentions of the accused to calling them outright liars wanting to tarnish the reputation of noble, powerful men. Himpathy works at the crux of male privilege and entitlement, placing concern about a man’s reputation and career over the safety of women.

sorry but we really gotta stop coming up with these stupid fucking cutsie names for this shit it just makes serious issues easier for men to belittle and dismiss it’s not fucking “himpathy” it’s fucking male privilege and the patriarchy that’s been ingrained into us since birth like jfc were grown adults stop using kiddie gloves
taramaclaywasaterf
taramaclaywasaterf

I got a new suit for my friend’s wedding I have coming up and in an unfortunate turn of events as I stood there in the dressing room I realized that I look just fucking like my father

taramaclaywasaterf

Wedding update🤪

Being the only Gay at a straight wedding surely is an…experience lmao. I’ve been friends with the bride for over half our lives but her family is, for lack of a better word, ~Christian~. I was a bridesmaid and I told her I’d happily wear the dress the other bridesmaids were wearing (they were actually really pretty- a dark maroon silky gown) and she insisted I didn’t have to, so I just got the same suit the groomsmen wore, except I wore a more “feminine” (aka floral) tie that matched the bridesmaids dresses, plus maroon socks. I even let the makeup artist put a bit of mascara on me which I wasn’t happy about but hey, it’s not my wedding, it’s not about me. Although she did wanna pluck my brows and I said absolutely the fuck not lmao. I walked down the isle and I swear to god her ~Very Christian~ grandmother about keeled over.

At the reception I felt simultaneously a bit like a circus attraction and a plague- like I was to be either avoided or gawked at with no gray area. People either looked at me like 😬🫤😒 or like 😳😲😨 and nothing in between. Did I mention this wedding was in North Carolina? Yeah. I do get stares and stuff in PA/Jersey too sometimes, but never like this. The grooms family was more chill but still had that….vibe.

But, the way straight women my age who’ve never really interacted with (out) lesbians before act the moment they get like one single glass of champagne in them is crazy tho lol. Im not talking about the “spaghetti girl” bullshit or whatever, but it’s just like you can see them have that moment where they realize they don’t Have To be hyper feminine, if that makes sense? Like, I sit with my legs spread. I take up space. I talk over men who interrupt me. I took my jacket and tie off and unbuttoned a few buttons and rolled up the sleeves because it was hot in the room. I slouched and laughed loudly and didn’t care to be ~ladylike~ or whatever. And I’ll see them kinda watch me. And you can just see these women start to pick up the same traits. They’ll slouch a little bit more. They’ll kick off their heels. They’ll put their elbows on the table. They’ll laugh and smile without covering their mouths or trying to keep quiet. It’s really really cool. It reminds me of the first time I met a gender non conforming woman and realized there’s more to being a woman than just a rigid cage of femininity. And how fucking freeing that is. It’s cool to actually be that person for someone.

There was one girl who I found out was the grooms cousin, and the first words out of her mouth when she met me were “hi! What are your pronouns!” And I was just like “🙃oh!😃 I’m a woman!” Literally not meanly or bluntly or anything whatsoever, and she just went “…oh.” Like hello ?? You clearly know I’m a woman. You wouldn’t have asked if I was a man in a suit, and you wouldn’t have asked if I was a woman in a dress, so why tf are you asking me just because I’m a wearing a suit. I preferred the Christians.

Anyway. When I got back to Jersey this morning I was like “oh thank fuck I’m home” lol.

Oh!!! And!!! I didn’t drink a single thing!!! It was open bar! I even held up a glass of champagne for the toast and didn’t drink it!! I’m literally so proud of myself I can’t even put it into words. A year ago I wouldn’t have been able to do this, but I did. I fucking did it.

taramaclaywasaterf
taramaclaywasaterf

Alrighty, I’ve finally got the time to sit down for the first time today, so its time to compile a nice little list of receipts:

*Trans”woman” doctor who drugged and raped his patients

*Trans”woman” who had over 80,000 “indecent” images of children

*Trans”woman” who raped a female inmate while incarcerated and had it covered up by the authorities

*I can’t even begin to summarize this shit, its that bad

*Trans”woman” pedophile attacking a young girl in the women’s bathroom

*Trans”woman” literally beat a baby to death, article makes no mentions he’s actually a man

*Trans”woman” who sexually assaulted his own daughter when she was THREE YEARS OLD, now gets to go to female prison

*Man who tied a couple to an anchor and dropped them into the ocean now a “woman”

*Trans”woman” who molested multiple women insists he shouldn’t get charged because he’s just soooo dysphoric

*Trans”woman” the size of a monster truck rapes a woman hired to take care of him, article doesn’t even bother to mention the fact that he’s actually a man

*Yet another pedophile

*Again, can’t even summarize this one

*And another pedophile

*Oh, guess what
 yet another pedophile

*Trans”woman” who claims the reason he’s a rapist is because of his dysphoria, so we should all, like, totally feel bad for him,,,

*To the surprise of no one, yet another pedophile

*Yet another pedophile

*And another

*Trans”woman” who raped two women outside of prison, moved to female prison, where he proceeds to rape the female inmates

Want more? Just go to r/thisneverhappens on Reddit. Here, I’ll even make it easy for ya!:
https://www.reddit.com/r/thisneverhappens/

There’s literally hundreds of links to sources of violent MEN- excuse me, trans”women” (and, hey! even a few trans”men” too!)- who have raped, assaulted, stalked, tortured, or murdered people. Its all right there at your fingertips. Many of these men are pedophiles. Many of them are now currently being transferred to female prisons. The ones that are already in female prisons are currently raping the vulnerable women- overwhelmingly women of color due to systemic, institutionalized racism- incarcerated with them. Again, keep in mind that this is literally the tip of the iceberg. This isn’t even .01% of all the violent men who call themselves women who are being moved into female prisons.

Moving on.

Here’s a fun link! It’s of you freaks attacking women for daring to attend a women’s only speech!:
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s://www.womenarehuman.com/police-do-nothing-as-rowdy-transgender-activists-terrorize-attendees-scream-kick-windows-at-womans-place-uk-meeting/

Or maybe some other relevant links, hmm?

*Woman of color fired from position as president of Planned Parenthood for believing in biological sex. She gets replaced by a white trans”woman”

*An article about the white man who replaced her as the president of Planned Parenthood

*This ones about women in a homeless shelter being forced to shower with a trans”woman” who continuously sexually harasses them

*Here’s one about two women- survivors of domestic violence- being kicked out of a homeless shelter for daring to be concerned about the behavior of the trans”woman” they were forced to share a room with

*A breastfeeding mother was arrested in front of her young children and detained for hours without access to feminine hygiene products, all because she “misgendered” a trans”woman” online

*This is a great writeup summarizing several different cases of trans”women” being fucking awful, to put it mildly

*A man was investigated by the police for retweeting a limerick about transgenderism

*A young mother was thrown out of a bar and has since been harassed by the owners, all because she wore a shirt that stated the dictionary definition of “woman”

*Woman of color was fired from her job because she wouldn’t call an entirely gender-conforming white man a “woman” (This is an older article but it’s the only one I had on my phone- she ended up losing her case in court. This is the woman that JK Rowling tweeted out her support to, in case she sounded familiar)

*Trans”woman” who binds his feet to be more “feminine”, appropriating the sex-based oppression Chinese women faced with foot binding

*A bomb threat called into a Woman’s Place meeting

*A teenage boy with Asperger’s has been arrested and fined for “misgendering” a trans”man” cop

*Another article about the boy with Asperger’s

*Trans”woman” elementary school teacher demanding to have access to his female STUDENT’S bathroom. He already has full access to the female staff’s bathroom. Now he wants in with the little girls, too. Mind you, NO staff is allowed into the students’ bathrooms

*Documented pedophile Johnathan “Jessica” Yaniv is back at his misogynistic, racist bullshit once again

*Trans people are less likely to get murdered than the average person, and trans victims who are murdered are actually predominantly killed in domestic disputes, meaning they are rarely the victims of hate crimes

These two are about the same event, where a feminist speaker was attacked by a trans”woman”:

*A great writeup filled with other sources

*This one goes into the trans cult’s reaction to the attack, which was, unsurprisingly, horrendous

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These are a few tumblr posts about TIM predators and other various trans bullshit, which provide additional sources in their posts. Actually read the posts, and click the sources:

*Here’s a link to a post about another prominent TRA whose a child molester

*Just a quick one about how trans”women” love to portray themselves as the victims, even when it couldn’t be further from the truth (again, sources provided in the post)

*This is an excellent post (containing links to sources that back it up) about how homosexuality is viewed across the globe, vs. how transgenderism is viewed

*Excellent writeup with sources about a trans”woman” lies and blatant smear campaign against academics

*This is a link to screenshots from the rape victims of trans”woman” and very prominent “trans rights activist” Eli Erlrick

*And this is a wordpress linking multiple, in-detail, accusations against Eli Erlrick

*Gag-worthy post full of god knows how many screenshots of countless trans”women” shown fetishizing little girls, being misogynistic, being lesbophobic, and being all around vile, disturbing, predatory, male freaks

*Just
ugh. Video of some trans bullshit at a Pride event, with a comment by someone who was actually there

*Screenshots of a discord for trans”women” where they openly talk about their vile rape fantasies

*Post with multiple links talking about a French radical feminist who denounced the misogyny of the trans cult, only for them to put up a banner (in reference to other French protests) that said “TERFs burn at the stake”

*Post with sources, screenshots, and translations, about a white trans”woman” who got a lesbian only event shut down at a lesbian bar in Tokyo

*An amazing post about how trans activism has severely harmed intersex people, and how it is the exact opposite of everything intersex activists have been working for

*This has a bunch of screenshots and links to a Black woman getting ripped to shreds by the trans cult, all because she dared to make art about her own female body

*Here’s a fun post that documents all the crimes that GameStop He-Ma’am from a while ago has committed before he decided he’s a laydee. Remember him? He’s the guy who screamed at a GameStop, frothing at the mouth like a rabid dog, all because the poor cashier accidently called him “sir”?

*And here’s the video of the GameStop bro to refresh your memory

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Now for some videos!

Trans activists assault woman:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_d3ozhSE-U

Different video about the same assault above:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uL26jtQXSJw

Trans activists shut down speech and interrupt moment of silence for the Pulse shooting victims:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Wc6-HikFz4

Trans”woman” whose a known sexual predator, interrupts Rose McGowen’s speech, while Rose was speaking about her own experiences with rape in the movie industry:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tW4X_IYDsJc

Trans”woman” attacks radical feminists in Argentina:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tsW0KxX92o

Here is a post that goes into more detail about what happens and translates a bit of what’s being said in the video above. It also provides screenshots from the woman who were there.

Trans”woman” attacks young Black girl:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0svl_5dFUOM

Trans activists harass women at the launch of the launch of the Vancouver Women’s Library:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJ4sbNVkJnM

Trans activists setting off a smoke bomb in a London office building:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLrqP7RavlU

Trans activists harassing lesbian feminist at Dyke March:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nblXa665laY

Trans”woman” spits in man’s face, says “go ahead, punch a woman”:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrJiIDP8Bhk

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Is all that not enough for you?

What about Cherno Biko, a trans”woman” and trans activist who raped a transman with the deliberate intent of impregnating her, and still got to speak at the Women’s March on Washington AFTER that information was made public.

What about Allison Woolbert, the director of a transgender human rights organization, and convicted pedophile

What about The Cotton Ceiling, a movement created by trans”women” that paints lesbians’ underwear as a bigoted barrier that needs to be broken through

What about trans”woman” Dana McCallum, twitter engineer, who raped his wife

What about trans”woman” Donna Perry, a serial killer who murdered women because he thought they weren’t “using their uteruses properly by being prostitutes”, and claimed that he was innocent now that he’s transition to a “woman”

What about Chad Severance Turner, prominent trans activist and pedophile

What about Dana Rivers, a trans”woman” and Camp Trans activist, who beat an interracial lesbian couple and their son to death because they turned him down

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Here’s some lovely screenshots of trans activists nailing dead rats and spray painting death threats on the doors and windows of a Vancouver Rape Relief women’s shelter! Also screenshots of a Black woman being told by Canadian politician trans”woman”, Morgane Ogre, that talking about her being a victim of female genital mutilation is Evilâ„ąïž because it hurts trans”women’s” feelings, some lovely misogynistic lynchings of “TERFs”, a trans”woman” bragging about his (male) privilege, and more! I’m sure you still think this is all totally warranted behavior, right???

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Is THAT good enough for you? Now do you understand why it is radical feminists want nothing to do with you monsters? Trans activism is nothing but the newest manifestation of the patriarchy. It’s men’s rights activism in a wig. And at this point, anyone who sees all the shit they’ve done and all the shit they’re doing, and still supports them, is just as fucking bad as they are. And remember, this barely touched on the lesbophobia (and homophobia in general) that runs rampant under the guise of trans “activism.” This doesn’t even go into the fact that trans”women” starting to take the very few places in businesses and governments reserved strictly for women, or them rolling back hard earned rights the suffragettes fought tooth and nail for. This doesn’t even touch on the fact that young girls and women are now losing out on desperately needed sports scholarships to universities, losing hard earned and long standing titles, all because trans”women” are taking over real women’s sports. If I were to go into all that, this post would be 10x as long as it is now, and the 35 minutes I’ve spent on this is too much as it is. So please. Tell me again how this sort of stuff “never happens” and how radfems are “just as violent”.

taramaclaywasaterf

guys this post is literally 4 years old and like none of the links work anymore, why are yall reblogging it😭😭😭

like I love yall but HOWWW did yall even find this post again ?? its been dead for yearssss lol I literally made it with zero effort in like five seconds in response to a random TRA claiming this stuff ‘never happens’ and that radfems are ‘just as violent’ it was never intended to be a master list or a resource or anything but here we are😭😭