Ideal game:

Sandbox survival MMORPG with a strong magic system that operates similarly to the way combat was structured in Star Wars: Jedi Academy. First person, resource gathering and strong agricultural system with emphasis on aspects of herbalism. Power does not come from gear, instead it comes from leveling skills with the exception of maybe a few rare items. Lots of cities and a strong economy that will be supported by the products you produce or the resources you gather/farm. Not too crowded but populated enough that you will see other players on the occasion. Lots of freedom to build whatever you want (from a quaint farm to a castle) provided your building does not harm the playability or the mood of the game for other players. Ability to own a shop for selling your goods (can be located anywhere you wish including the cities if there is land for sale). Combat should not be the focus of the game but it should be elaborate and content loaded regardless. Rather than having big boss fights I would prefer to have enemies that are simple in their appearance but difficult to kill when encountered and do not have predictable attack patterns. NPC's should have a lot of focus on their AI, conversations for each NPC should be elaborate and interesting so as to add depth to the roleplay aspects. The environment should embody similar asthetics to the landscapes of northern and western europe (Plains, lakes, oceans, dense coniferous and deciduous forests, mountains, small clacial regions,)... AKA skyrim with less snow.

I'm in a bit of a situation where I can't seem to enjoy games anymore but if anyone actually read all this and knows of a game that has all of those features I would be forever in your debt if you gave me the name. :)