Introduce perma-unstable `wasm-c-abi` flag

Now that `wasm-bindgen` v0.2.88 supports the spec-compliant C ABI, the idea is to switch to that in a future version of Rust. In the meantime it would be good to let people test and play around with it.

This PR introduces a new perma-unstable `-Zwasm-c-abi` compiler flag, which switches to the new spec-compliant C ABI when targeting `wasm32-unknown-unknown`.

Alternatively, we could also stabilize this and then deprecate it when we switch. I will leave this to the Rust maintainers to decide.

This is a companion PR to #117918, but they could be merged independently.
MCP: rust-lang/compiler-team#703
Tracking issue: rust-lang/rust#122532