lesson-in-ruthlessness asked:
my new therapist knows about fintante now. i went on a tangent™
I approve 👍
the line between vengeful brutal catharsis and gay sex is very thin so be careful out there
I'm a fandom oldie and a strong proponent of "ship and let ship", and I defend everyone else's right to ship what they love... But I think that gives people the idea that I like, automatically love every single ship??? Or every single trope?
I don't though!
There are a lot of fandom tropes that are on my "absolutely fuck no" list. There are a lot of irk kinks that are also on my "nope absolutely not" list, too. Personally, this is healthy. I'm able to look at something and go "Yep, I hate it, but it's not harming anyone, so continue to do as you please."
I think this is where the rubber meets the road for actually having principles. It’s easy to defend the things we like, just like it’s easy to fight for our own rights and those of people just like us. When you have to use logic to extend your sense of justice to people you can’t relate to, that actually takes effort.
Not undiagnosed, not diagnosed, but a secret third category: diagnosed, but autism alone definitely isn’t supposed to do this
remember kids. never go into the notes of a post about a funny english language phenomenon unless you are prepared to see people be painfully wrong about linguistics <3
just thought of the most fucked up aldella au it’s disgusting i am going to be sick
*shaking and sobbing on the bathroom floor* what if. what if they weren’t fucked up and were in a genuinely healthy relationship and actually loved each other without complications and talked to each other like spouses should and had no trust issues. i’m throwing up this is awful
