A continuación, te explicamos cómo puedes vencer el miedo a dar feedback a tus compañeros.

Constructive feedback and being authentic is key! Feedback is a gift, and if you do it the appropriate way through empathy, the right environment, and looking at it from a growth perspective, it can work wonders in developing a team. Being respectful and focusing more on the behaviors than the person is crucial.

Ditch the misconception that feedback = criticism. It's a growth opportunity. Frame it as a two-way conversation, not a lecture. Focus on specific, observable behaviors - no personal attacks. Lead with positive intent and words of appreciation. Ask questions, and listen actively to understand their perspective. Offer constructive suggestions, not just criticisms. Make it a regular process, not a dreaded yearly ritual. Model openness to feedback yourself. Create a psychologically safe environment built on trust. Don't make it personal - it's about helping each other improve.

Conquering the fear of giving feedback to colleagues starts with embracing empathy. Understand their perspective and approach the conversation with a genuine intent to help. Use specific examples and focus on behaviors rather than personal attributes. Ensure that your feedback is constructive and balanced with positive reinforcement, creating a supportive environment for improvement.

To conquer the fear of giving feedback to your colleagues, embracing empathy is key. Approach the feedback conversation with empathy, understanding that delivering constructive criticism can be challenging for both parties. Put yourself in your colleague's shoes and consider how you would want to receive feedback. Emphasize that your intention is to help them grow and improve, not to criticize. Provide specific, actionable feedback focused on behaviors and outcomes, not personal attributes. Encourage open dialogue, listen actively, and be receptive to their perspective. Offer support and resources to help them implement the feedback and achieve their goals.

It’s important to tailor the feedback approach according to the preferred communication style of the feedback-recipient. Each person is different and the way they receive and digest feedback can be completely different from one person to the other, even if they work in the same team and have similar experiences. The key for a constructive feedback is to understand every individual’s communication style and emotions. This will help you give people feedback that they would understand, accept and even appreciate.

Feedback planning isn't just for oneself, but it also involves communicating it to the person who will receive it. Book some time for the feedback conversation, just to be prepared for both sides. Additionally, you should promote a "feedback culture" in the organization, where feedback is received with generosity, expressing gratitude, and without making explanations.

The sandwich technique may work well when one is trying to give a feedback. Cushioning the negative feedback between 2 positive feedbacks in most likely hood will help the recipient handle the blow of the negative feedback better and may help come out the conversation less dejected or demoralised.

In my experience, planning ahead is both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, it helps to have an idea of what we plan to say BEFORE we start talking and nothing comes out. On the other hand, planned conversations almost NEVER sound the same in real life as they do in my head. So, I recommend that we simply plan the bullet points, and then let the rest be more authentic and natural.

There's a Smart rule for giving feedback and it can really help with the planning: S - Specific - related to a specific situation or behaviour M - Measurable - it can be measured and scaled A - Achievable - it must bring achievable change action R - Realistic - it must be grounded on real examples T - Time-bound - it must be given within proper time-frame With this rule, your feedback sessions can be much more productive!

I've found that planning ahead is crucial for effective feedback. I prepare thoroughly, schedule dedicated time, set clear objectives, anticipate reactions, and practice delivery. This approach ensures constructive and impactful feedback, fostering growth and teamwork.

Timing is everything! The best feedback delivered at the wrong time can be devastating. Ensure that the timing is good and that our heart is pure, then deliver the best feedback you can.

Typically, thoughtful feedback benefits from good timing, space for careful delivery, and open reception. But there IS an exception. Feedback in the moment can be both beneficial AND memorable. For instance, - A manager developing confidence in her employee noticed her sitting in the back of the room. She walked up and whispered, "You're sitting in the back. Come take a seat at the table." - Two colleagues were challenged by their boss to improve their presentation skills. As one stood at the front of the room, he happened to stand right in front of the screen so no one could see his slides. His colleague motioned discretely from the back of the room to move to the side, creating a more polished presentation. Feedback, in the moment.

Elegir el momento adecuado para dar feedback es crucial para asegurar que sea bien recibido. Evita dar feedback en momentos de alta tensión o estrés, ya que esto puede provocar reacciones defensivas. En su lugar, busca un momento tranquilo y privado donde ambos puedan concentrarse sin distracciones. Un entorno adecuado facilita una comunicación abierta y honesta. También es importante ser oportuno; no esperes demasiado tiempo para dar feedback, ya que la información fresca es más relevante y útil. Elegir el momento adecuado demuestra respeto por el tiempo y los sentimientos de tu compañero, lo que puede reducir tu propio miedo y la ansiedad de la situación.

Timing your feedback is crucial for it to be effective. By choosing a moment when your colleague is most receptive, you ensure that your message is not only heard but thoughtfully considered. This approach shows respect for their time and emotional state, fostering trust and making your feedback more impactful.

I love specific feedback because it's actionable. If it's not actionable, then it's not specific enough. Test it by practicing your response to this question - 'thanks for the feedback, what do you want me to do?' If the response is vague, the other person is just being told off, which is damaging. Consider the actions you want taken/want stopped and work backwards from there. The feedback should be targeted at those actions.

General feedback (such as, "You are a good person" or "You are mean") is rarely helpful. In order for people to know what either A) to keep doing/is appreciated or B) to stop doing/is harmful, they need to know what exactly they are doing well/poorly. Something as simply specific as, "You hair looks nice." is better than "You look good" or "I feel that your cheesecake is a bit dry" is better than, "I don't like your cooking." The same applies in every aspect of feedback, with anyone.

Maya's logo designs got a lukewarm "bolder colors" from the client. Her team lead, Daniel, tried to help but his feedback was vague. Frustrated, Maya revised blindly. Finally, she pressed for specifics. Daniel, realizing his mistake, showed her competitor logos with strong color palettes. "See how this pops?" he said, pointing to one. "This feels more luxurious." Empowered, Maya resubmitted designs that impressed the client. Daniel commended her. "Clear questions get clear answers," he said. Maya understood. Feedback wasn't just vague critique; it was a guide. From then on, her feedback was specific, giving colleagues a roadmap to success.

Giving vague feedbacks will only result to more time and resources lost and wasted which could have been spared had we given specific feedback from the start. If it's too broad and generalized, it will only make them miss a core issue which could lead to continued mistakes. Being specific will give them a roadmap and it will show that we've evaluated their work and we're committed to their development through honest and thoughtful critique.

Being specific in your feedback is crucial because it transforms vague advice into clear, actionable steps. When you give concrete examples, like pointing out a meeting where taking initiative could have led to a better outcome, it helps your colleague see exactly what needs to change. This clarity not only makes the feedback more useful but also sets a clear path for improvement, reducing any potential confusion.

Feedback should always foster dialogue. If we go to "tell" someone something, then our heart may not be right. If we desire to foster improvement and growth, then we will be open to dialogue and have a desire to walk with the co-worker on the journey of improvement.

Encourage your colleague to not only share their perspective but also suggest solutions. This can make the feedback process more collaborative and empowering.

Feedback conversations should be just that - a conversation, not a monologue. Once you have outlined specifically what you have observed, providing concrete examples and descriptions of impact, then invite input from your counterpart. There may be unknown factors at play that are have impacted the person for which they need additional support. Alternatively, it could be that the person had no idea that their behaviour was having the impact it was, which can open up a wonderful space for reflection and perspective shifting. Most importantly, invite the person to identify how they could adapt in response to the feedback rather than just telling them what they need to do. You will get more commitment if the person has agency in the solution.

Fostering dialogue in feedback sessions is crucial because it transforms the process into a collaborative effort. By encouraging your colleague to share their perspective and ask questions, you not only make the feedback more balanced but also uncover insights you might have missed. This approach builds trust and ensures that both parties are aligned in their understanding and goals.

Balance your feedback by acknowledging positive aspects of your colleague's performance. Highlighting strengths can make them more receptive to constructive criticism. For example, when I needed to address a team member's communication issues, I started by praising their excellent problem-solving skills. This approach softened the conversation and made them more open to hearing about areas needing improvement. By recognizing their contributions, you show that you value their work, which can build trust and make your feedback more effective.

El seguimiento después de dar feedback es crucial para asegurar que los cambios sugeridos se implementen y para demostrar tu compromiso con el desarrollo de tu compañero. Programar una reunión de seguimiento permite revisar el progreso, ofrecer reconocimiento por las mejoras y abordar cualquier desafío que pueda haber surgido. Este proceso continuo de retroalimentación y apoyo no solo refuerza los puntos discutidos, sino que también construye una relación de confianza y responsabilidad mutua. El seguimiento asegura que el feedback no sea una acción aislada, sino parte de un esfuerzo constante para mejorar y crecer juntos, reduciendo así el miedo inicial a dar feedback.

I've learned that follow-up is crucial in ensuring initiatives reach their full potential. Here's why: Closure and Clarity: Following up provides closure on action items and ensures everyone is on the same page. Accountability: It holds individuals accountable for their commitments, driving productivity and accountability. Feedback Loop: It opens a feedback loop, allowing for adjustments and improvements along the way. Relationship Building: Regular follow-up demonstrates commitment and fosters trust and collaboration among team members. Continual Improvement: It enables us to learn from past experiences and continually improve our processes.

During follow-up discussions, be sure to acknowledge progress, no matter how small. This can boost your colleague’s motivation and confidence.

Well, this step of yours shows that you care about your colleague's progress and are invested in their progress. This ongoing support helps to build a positive relationship and trust. It also provides an opportunity to address any concerns or misunderstandings that may have arisen from the initial feedback. When you follow up it makes the feedback feel like part of an ongoing dialogue, which can reduce anxiety for both you and your colleague.

Foster a culture of open communication and transparency. Giving feedback doesn’t always have to be a difficult conversation to have… If you give feedback regularly, are constructive and objective, don’t just focus on the negative, and have clear intentions, people will be more welcoming of it. Also, as a leader, make sure you also embrace the importance of receiving feedback by letting your people give you feedback too without possible retaliations. Ask them for feedback, listen to what they have to say and be appreciative of their honesty as well.

Feedback is scary! Don't be afraid. Three steps to successful Feedback: 1. Have a pure heart (no ego, and a willingness to listen) 2. Be willing to accept feedback 3. Love the person with your feedback. (It should show care and concern, not hate or irritation.

As many people know "don't shoot the messenger", they still do. What I found is that there are two basic scenarios: 1. Growth mindset: Feedback is a gift. They can use it to improve. 2. Fear / Fixed Mindset: Feedback is a fight. In the second case, any feedback feels like an attack because they don't think they can change, or they have a static view of themself or struggle with self-worth. The general rule is ask for permission for feedback, and it reduces fights. In both cases, I share the guidance from my mentor. You can view feedback as a gift and respond one of 3 ways: 1. Ignore it all 2. Take it all 3. Use what's useful Ultimately, if you come from a place of authentic caring, the right behaviors tend to happen.

1 - Always set a stage, prior to the discussion. Sometimes, people just drops an email that we would be meeting to discuss your performance. Now the other person will keep thinking whether he did something wrong. Communicate concisely indicating what would be your agenda over the call/In-person meeting. 2. Always go prepared with the Data. 3. Be genuine towards growth of your people. If you are genuine for their growth, they will see that in your behavior and no conversation will ever feel hard. Remember every relationship (whether personal or professional) is give and take relation. Invest in their growth and they will invest themselves for you and the company. :)