¿Cuáles son las técnicas efectivas para abordar el diálogo interno negativo de un cliente?

Considering the voice of the negative messaging is often beneficial to addressing negative self-talk. Much of a clients' self-talk may have originated from someone else and over time morphed into messages they give to themselves. When a client realizes that they learned the negative messaging from an external source it can encourage them to question the validity of the message, as well as identify new, positive self-talk that is a product of their own beliefs.

The Strength-based perspective is very valuable in this regard. Assist clients to identify all strengths and resources internally as well as external.

One way to notice negative self talk is to give it a name. "That's the worry meister again - telling me nothing will work out for me." Another is to ask if the voice sounds like anyone they know, or knew in their past. Once voice has a name it is easier to catch what it is saying. Writing it down can give some distance and allow them to consider the thought. Open ended questions allow for exploration. "In what way do you agree, or disagree with this voice? Is the thought accurate? Kind? Helpful? Would you let someone talk this way about your best friend?"

A way to know negative self talk is when repeatedly says these words. Another way is talking oneself down and the lack of esteem and self worth

A way to notice negative self talk is the feeling of lack and influence by people and their way of life, which may be fake. Also people’s attempt to thwart all your attempts to succeed in any field of work you do or you try to be success in it.

Motivational interviewing can enhance the client and counselor/therapist relationship. By utilizing the four principles you can deconstruct the mindset of your client to challenge their status quo. These principles are: Resist the righting reflex; Understand the patient's own motivations; Listen with empathy; and Empower the patient. This is known as the R.U.L.E. Technique. Active listening is integral to getting to the roots of understanding your clients communication style and how to provide a strengths-based approach to transformation.

These are all such great and EFFECTIVE ways in which to engage and empower our clients to start to both see, negotiate, and validate the ways in which they have learnt to speak to themselves, sometimes internalised voices from the past, and sometimes internalised voices through life experience. It has been one of the most beautiful and authentic moments, when clients start sharing the truths that they have lived with in their lives, and their readiness to start facing themselves with no fear, in order to change the way they live in this life.

I believe that the most important thing you can do is help someone feel heard, understood, respected and important. Even if you don't know what to say, by being present and (actually) actively listening gives the other person enough perspective to help them adjust their self talk. Sometimes without saying a word; if you are truly present and emotionally connected with the other person, your non verbal communication is enough.

Considero que hay que diferenciar si es una tendencia de la persona, su negatividad (que sea parte de su estructura de Personalidad) o solo está pasando una situación de crisis, y el señalarle justo ese aspecto con mucha cautela, sino todo lo va a tomar a mal y no va a poder escuchar Retroalimentación ni nada. O va a hacer como que escucha sin mejorar su desempeño, sea como fuere, se podrá observar en los resultados obtenidos posteriormente.

Après avoir REELEMENT écouté activement votre interlocuteur, il est essentiel de rationaliser l'expression d'émotions ou de pensées négatives jouant un rôle néfaste pour que cette personne puisse être accompagné efficacement. Le retour aux faits, aux avancées réalisées, et aux tâches restantes est un bon moyen d'y arriver.

After listening and understanding another person's perspective, you gain insight on the specific things they actually need help reconstructing. From my experience, this is typically "how"/"ways in which" their self talk impacts their lives. Each person is unique, so the specifics are always nuanced. That being said, by and large, sustainable change comes with 1) understanding the patterns of how your self talk impacts you 2) adjusting your relationship with words and how they impact you. 3) reinforce the desired feelings/patterns

So true. We often treat strangers better than we treat ourselves. When you catch yourself doing this, remember how far you’ve come and all the adversity in your life you’ve encountered and you’re still here! Alive and kicking! And that person (you) deserves some kindness.

"Be kind to the parts of you that are still learning. This is an opportunity for me to evolve/grow." This is something I say to myself in difficult moments. I share it with my clients, as a template, to help them through their fears, moments of doubt and mistakes. If we always knew the right answers, there would be no mistakes. No mistakes, means no room to grow. We are all (always) learning.

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I love positive affirmations!! They really do help shift our mindsets. I always have clients pick out an affirmation that they can say to themselves everyday such as “I am in control of my success” or “I am evolving.” Those are my favorite ones.

Positive affirmation like 'I can do it', I'm enough etc. Can help the client reprogram their minds, enough the person to repeat them daily especially when the voice creepes in their heads.

One thing I wanted to add to this is: motivating the client toward spiritual health. Why I say this is, till now the life that we all live is only the 'DREAM'. We had never been given a chance to be in the" mind Consciousness". We are all brought up in a conditioned way not in a conscious way of mind. To be spiritually active the clients can be motivated towards mindfulness.

In my experience, asking clients the right questions about their self talk can be revealing for them. For example, how often do you say that? Do you believe it? Why do you think you say that? Then, give your clients a new vocabulary. Give them speeches, books, music to listen to that gives them new things to say. Introduce a Growth Mindset to you clients.

Additional tips, we have found that creative expression can be essential in allowing clients to start to become aware of their own negative self talk - self portraits, mirror work, shadow work - this has been recognised as a safer way of starting this type of work. Chair work, writing, music, even sand tray work can be pivotal in creating safe ways for this integral healing to begin.

Understanding; To stop negative self-talk first should to understand ,nobody can’t stop their thought but mind’s always going to think,Meditation ,build new perspectives can help to change talk , retrain the mind to stop believing every negative thought and feeling , switch negative self-talk , improve self-esteem, and use energy to do something that makes happy, training to focus on positive thinking. Self awareness ,writing down , record negative self talk , notice to critical inner voice ,Creating a space to feel safe to express their thoughts. Providing listening ear with no advice, Creating opportunities to reword what they are saying, allow them to make decision, create time and space to focus on their strengths. 

Re : point 1, I’d add to the list, what’s it trying to achieve? How is this voice perhaps trying to serve you, albeit in a maladaptive way? I’m thinking of some of the ways approaches like IFS might look at voices like this.

I always work with my clients on establishing healthy support systems. Having reassuring and consistent people around you is priceless. Have your pets. Have your coping skills. Have your job. Have your alone time. Have your people. As humans, we are social beings. Connection with others is vital.