"I simply can"t communicate my needs-" learn how to.

"I"m bad at communicating my feelings-" learn it then.

"I constantly lose friends because I don"t keep up with them-" make an effort.

"I just have terrible emotional regulation-" self-reflect. Get better.

"Sorry I"m always late-" improve your time management strategies.

"Everytime I meet this person they make me feel awful-" don"t meet them anymore. I know it"s hard, do it anyway.

"My relationship with my partner is suffering because I never talk to them about what I need and want-" they can"t read your mind. Learn to talk.

If you are an adult, you can learn how to handle your own feelings. Sit down, write it down, self-reflect, make strategies. Seek change. Better yourself.

Weaponized emotional incompetence, where you expect people around you to handle your issues without ever trying to change, isn"t the way to go. You have agency, use it.

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It’s weird man, I’ve realized that most people don’t value honesty in practice. They care about keeping the peace and not rocking the boat. They can know something is wrong, but if it’s unpopular to say, even when they’re given a golden opportunity to say it, they just won’t. I wish more people would just be ok with being disliked. Who cares if other people think poorly of you when you’re just saying what is so obviously true? The truth is the most important thing in almost every situation.

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Stay vigilant. While Trump is popping off about Canada, Greenland, and Mexico, Republican Andy Biggs has introduced House Resolution 7.

This line, "Whereas health care for women should also address the needs of men, families, and communities as they relate to women’s health care," implies that men could potentially dictate women"s healthcare; for example, a woman might not be able to use birth control without her husband"s permission.

I know that a few states still require written spousal consent for sterilization, and I am concerned that this bill could introduce the same concept for smaller healthcare decisions.

The primary focus of healthcare should be the patient, not the people surrounding them.

Hero of the Year 2025

I"m calling it early - I doubt anyone will beat The Right Reverend Mariann Edgar Budde

(I sure hope I"ve addressed her correctly)

For the most stunning act of bravery, class, integrity, and speaking truth to power that has graced the USA in far too long.

Not a single shake in her voice as she spoke directly to one of the most vengeful, spiteful, and (unfortunately) powerful people on the planet, while also receiving glares of hate and outrage from the despicable VP and his wife.

It"s not the first time she"s stood up for what is right in defiance of trump"s actions, but while many may speak out on it, there have been scarcely any with the backbone to follow through on the opportunity to do it to his face, and especially on live television. She had her moment, and she didn"t waste it.

May she be the inspiration we all take forward with us into the turbulent times ahead.

"I simply can"t communicate my needs-" learn how to.

"I"m bad at communicating my feelings-" learn it then.

"I constantly lose friends because I don"t keep up with them-" make an effort.

"I just have terrible emotional regulation-" self-reflect. Get better.

"Sorry I"m always late-" improve your time management strategies.

"Everytime I meet this person they make me feel awful-" don"t meet them anymore. I know it"s hard, do it anyway.

"My relationship with my partner is suffering because I never talk to them about what I need and want-" they can"t read your mind. Learn to talk.

If you are an adult, you can learn how to handle your own feelings. Sit down, write it down, self-reflect, make strategies. Seek change. Better yourself.

Weaponized emotional incompetence, where you expect people around you to handle your issues without ever trying to change, isn"t the way to go. You have agency, use it.

it probably feels good as fuck to freak out and scream really loud and break shit

@/ ariannakyanne on tiktok

rest in peace to Shannon Hanchett, and Oklahoma woman and bakery owner who died due to after getting put in a “temporary” cell during a mental health crisis. The room she was put in had no sink, toilet, and no bed for twelve days. The lights were kept on 24 hrs a day so she couldn’t sleep.

Allegedly she was denied water for 12 straight days.

At the time of her death, police and staff were joking and laughing just several feet away from her body.

The Bill of Rights and the Constitution have been REMOVED from WhiteHouse.Gov.

That’s it.

That’s the post.

They can"t pass any gun control because it goes against the constitution.

But they can revoke the citizenship of people who were born here, which goes against the constitution.

They never cared about the constitution.

so a dude routinely comes to a coffee shop with his dick in his hand, the manager is done with his shit, posts his face along with his crime, cowardly pervert shoots himself, and it"s the coffee shop managers fault? bite me